Why is it the ones you love hurt you the most?
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Why is it the ones you love hurt you the most?
You may hurt the one you love the most simply because they are the ones that are mostly around. Our emotions, thoughts and behaviours are in constant interplay. If we have a negative mood, we are therefore more likely to act in ways that match our emotional state or get triggered by innocuous and harmless stimuli.
What to say to someone who is hurting emotionally quotes?
Here are FIVE THINGS we COULD say to someone who is some serious pain.
- This really stinks. Or, this really is awful/heartbreaking/painful.
- My heart breaks WITH yours. Empathy from others is felt when it’s real.
- You are NOT ALONE. Then, don’t leave them alone…just show up, be present…
- You are doing GREAT.
- Nothing.
How can I make him feel guilty?
Consider getting rid of some of the items he gave to you. If you have a picture he gave you that you usually keep in your locker, get rid of that picture—especially if there is a chance that he might see it. This might send the guy the message that he hurt you, and he might start to feel guilty for what he did.
Why do I love a person who hurts me?
Love Is Pain Before we start with the reasons, we should always remember that love can be suffering. We all know that it can be painful and difficult to deal with. But what’s inside our heart that makes us love someone who has caused us pain? The answer is simple: because they’re our soulmate.
How do you express your feelings to someone who hurt you?
How to communicate your feelings so you are heard.
- Start with why what you want to say is important.
- Briefly describe what happened that felt hurtful or disrespectful.
- Say how their behavior made you feel—the impact.
- Ask for what you need going forward.
- End by reinforcing why you are making this request.
Why do I miss the person who hurt me?
The ultimate fundamental reason why we miss someone or something is that once it made us feel good. Our brain functions in a very different way than we might assume. Its job is to keep you safe and happy at this particular moment. That is all it does.
Why does true love hurt so much?
Neuroimaging studies have shown that brain regions involved in processing physical pain overlap considerably with those tied to social anguish. The connection is so strong that traditional bodily painkillers seem capable of relieving our emotional wounds. Love may actually hurt, like hurt hurt, after all.
